31st Dec 2008
Happy 1st month Tasneem!!
We went to see her Paed- Dr.NikRose and ummi’s gynae- Dr.Noraini for Tasneem’s 2nd HepB jap and ummi’s post-partum check-up.
It was also, the 1st outing for us-the family- together.
Konon2nye nak gerak at 8.30am. Tapi sebab malam tu Tasneem buat pe’el lagi bangun kol 2pagi tido kol 5pg, ummi & abi terbangun lambat pagi tu. Kejutkan Tasneem dari tido, pas pada wan dia utk mandi dan bersiap. Lepas mandi, Tasneem sambung tido tanpa minum susu, ha itulah pe’el anak saya yang tak bley bukak mata time siang, tp pagi2 buta celik mata pulak! Ummi Tasneem pulak bersiap2, by the time abis mandi & bfast, milk-factory dah engorged. Sakit!! So abi kene tunggu plak ummi pump susu. 10am++ baru akhirnya kami bergerak dari umah wan Tasneem.
tido kejap sbb ummi x ready lg
Being a new parents, we’ve got an issue of ourselves for the travelling/outing. For Abi, he was struggling to install the new carseat in the car. Abi was such a perfectionist that he had to adjust & re-adjust the carseat a few times before he finally satisfied with the position. While for ummi, I had much a bigger issues to deal with.
It started a few nights before, saya sudah mula memikirkan ttg baju ape yang nak dipakaikan utk Tasneem (maklumlah, pertama kali nak tunjuk anak pada orang ramai..kenalah pakaikan baju yang buat dia lebih comelkan!!?? hohoho), then pikir nak bawak baju & barang ape, then pikir lagi nak bawak babybeg yang mana, then pikir lagi either nak bawak EBM atau tidak, campur lagi pikir baju ape ummi Tasneem ni nak pakai sebab sekarang ni sangat lah rasa inferior dengan body sendiri. Saya adalah rasa gemuk pada masa ini. 
Nervous jugak nak bwk Tasneem travel from Seremban to Bangi. Risau dia menangis dalam carseat dia tu. Tapi dia good-girl, merengek2 kejap bile kete berhenti, then bile moving dia senyap. After almost 20mins in the car, barulah dia tido. Fuhh, lega ummi. 
” saya suka jalan2. Abi, sila bawa saya jalan2 ke Pavillion ye!! “
Sampai kat AZ*M, nasib baik lah tak ramai orang que nak jumpa Dr.NikRose, lepas register terus dpt jumpa doc. Mula2 doc timbang, dah 4.05kg anak ummi ni. Tinggi pulak 56cm, lilitan kepala 35cm. Maksudnye berat naik almost 1kg and tinggi naik 6cm. Doc tunjukkan kat ummi graf kat kad merah tu, ummi tgk chart tinggi, graf Tasneem over the top sket. Tinggi Tasneem ni, bak kata doc. hehehe Lepas ukur segala macam tu, baru lah kene cucuk. Ha, menjeritlah budak-kecik-cute tu, menangis smpai tak kuar suara. Amboii anak ummi, bukan main lagi dia menangis. Abi pujuk2 Tasneem sebab ummi sibuk tanye doc pasal rashes Tasneem yang makin teruk tu.
Lepas jumpe Dr.NikRose, kami naik tingkat 1 jumpe Dr.Noraini pulak. Macam biasa amik blood pressure and timbang, urine je x payah sekarang ni. Bile naik atas mesin penimbang tu, gabra ummi. 66.5kg, hummpphhh baru turun 8kg je. Confirm la baju, seluar before pregnant x muat. Bencilaaaahhhhh. Harap sangat dapat turun lagi dalam masa sebulan ni, at least start keje nanti dah kurus kembali seperti sedia kala. Tapi, boleh ke??
Dr.Noraini buat ultrasound and check tempat incision tu, dia ckp ummi recover cepat. Uterus ummi dah kecut and incision tu pun ok, takde infection and parut pun x hodoh sangat.huhuhu.So doc bagi greenlight for ummi to wear bengkung & bertungku kat perut after this. Doc tanye either ummi nak buat pap smear sekarang or later, ummi decide buat later lah sebab ummi kan staff AZ*M, so xde masalah nak buat pap smear tu bebila masa pun boleh nanti. Then doc tanye pasal family planning, ada a few choices; IUCD, implanon, pills, injections. Hmm, bile part ni ummi xleh nak decide lagi sebab nak kene buat kajian yang sgt mendalam about the effects. Paling ummi nak elak adalah masalah peningkatan berat badan. Cukuplah dah merasa berat 75kg aritu okeh!! Doc ckp balik pikir and discuss dulu, menjelang start keje nanti harap2 dah buat decision sebab doc suggest buat family planning seawal yang mungkin sebab breast-feeding is not a total guarantee of family planning. Betul tu, ade kawan ummi lekat jugak anak ke-2 after 8months 1st deliver & breast-feed exclusively.
Lepas lunch, ummi bawak Tasneem pegi AW*C sebab ummi nak buat treatment urut, tangas n tungku dengan Kak Nora. Mase tu Tasneem dah lena tido dalam carseat, staff AW*C esp acik mmg menunggu2 kedatangan Tasneem. Diorg sume kerumun Tasneem & usik2 anak ummi ni, tapi Tasneem langsung tak nangis, bukak mata pun tak. Tasneem tido je tak sedar diri walaupun kene kacau dengan diorang. Mmg hebat betul anak ummi ni. Ummi pun senang hati lah nak buat treatment sebab Tasneem bile time siang ni kalu tido mmg confirm tak nangis merengek ke hape. Ummi dah readykan EBM so kalu Tasneem bangun nak nyusu, acik tinggal panaskan je EBM tu. Ummi plak memang syiok kene servis dgn Kak Nora. Masuk sauna, tangas, full body massage, full body herbal infusion, siap dengan mandi daun lagi. Memang best sgt2!!! Sekarang ni ummi tgh pikir hari ape yang sesuai nak buat treatment lagi 2x sebab ummi risau juga org AW*C ramai tegur kenapa muka ummi pucat x berseri.
Dekat pukul 6.30 baru abi datang amik kami and terus balik ke Seremban. Dalam kete ummi dah x nervous Tasneem nangis sebab dia tido je sampailah dah tiba umah wan baru bangun terus menangis mintak nenen.
All in all, outing kami haritu kire OK aje lah. Ade jugak part kelam-kabut jugak esp bile nak install & re-install carseat Tasneem. Ummi pulak kelam-kabut kejap nak cari tempat nak bf Tasneem bile dia dah nangis kelaparan. Pastu pulak Tasneem poo-poo, abi pulak kelam-kabut gi kat kereta sebab ummi terlupa nak bawa keluar babybeg Tasneem. Melenggang kangkung bawak handbeg je bile keluar dari kete, terlupa sekarang ni dah kene tambah 1 lagi beg nak kene bawak.hohoho
Tapi rasa2nye dah OK menjelang next outing ke Pavillion nanti. hehehe
February 2, 2008 at 12:42 pm
Hihihi kelakar betul. Experience first time kuar bertiga ek. Nway bape ek total weight u gained throughout pregnancy? Mebbe u ada tulis kot tp I xpasan. Hihi Tasneem tu bgn kul 2 pg tdo kul 5 pg tu dia practise bgn utk waktu solat tahajud tu. Semoga jadi anak solehah, amin
February 2, 2008 at 1:15 pm
Ina: erm, last pregnant berat i 74.5kg, before pregnant 60kg. 14.5kg , OMG!! banyak kan naik! harap2nye dpt laa turun berat ni. mungkin betul dia nak practise kot sbb ummi & abi dia mmg hari2 doa tasneem jadi anak yang solehah..amiinn.
February 3, 2008 at 10:58 am
hehehehhe, best sgt baca ur entry bout 1st family outing nih. esp bout MGH & his lil princess car seat, im expecting my hubby oso will be like dat. but the best psl u kuar lenggang kangkung, lupa Tasneem nyer bag.
nannor..dun wori bout the weight, yelah u blom start working lagi kan, so ur activity a bit limited. i nih lagi lar plak, tak tahu nanti mcm mana sebab sgt membesar bagai juara.
bila nak blk bangi?? sebab nak jumpa Tasneem, i plak tak tahu bila blk muar so bleh singgah seremban.
February 3, 2008 at 12:23 pm
yati: bila pk2 balik, mmg x baper organize sgt la outing aritu, masing2 macam kekok je ape nak buat. maklumlah, 1st time lah katekan…. psl berat tu mmg sgt rasa inferior esp bie tgk tang perut. menggelebeh so burukkss!!!! sungguh tidak sabar utk berexercise semula. I balik bangi on 24th feb. jemputlah dtg ke rumah UNITEN kami ittew!
February 3, 2008 at 5:09 pm
hehehhe sama la.. mmg serabut. we had check-up after 4 days (pastu adam terus admitted or jaundice), mmg lambat sgt nak siap. skrg ni pun lmbt jugak nk kluar tp tak la mcm dulu kekok sgt.
aku pun sama dulu fikir nak bwk EBM ke, nak bwk itu ini.. skrg just bring a bottle of EBM, wearing nice nursing tops (ni you must buy tau!).. i still cannot wear pre-pregnancy clothes.. so i end up buying new ones and still hoping one day i could fit them again.
after 3.5months, i still have another 4kg to shed! ermm tp rasanya some area dah takleh dah nak buat pape since we feed the baby..rasanya laa.. tak tau.
buy a big nice and stylish handbag! family outing would be easy after month 3. i guess sbb baby dah tak frequent feed mcm awal2.
tp adam tak suka duk stroller. hmmphh there goes another 6+kg to carry. hehe
**nice nursing tops? alamak, ni mmg aku rasa(??)xde. now nih kalu kuar pakai baju pregnant (isk isk isk) sbb baju lama mmg sendat mcm sarung nangka yg buruks kalu pakai. stylish diaper bag + nursing tops, wah sudah ade 2 item nak shopping ni.. hoohhooho. i guess we’ll get better organize soon, coz ummi’s so wanna go to pavillion!! harap2 Tasneem likes her stroller very much taht she sits still in it mase jalan2 nanti**
February 4, 2008 at 10:12 am
nannoor,
kalo nk try basic H tu email me OK sauberlina@gmail.com
u can use my ID, cos kalo beli sdr mahal. pakai member ID dpt diskaun.
i think u try dlu with my ID, kalo puas hati then baru jd member
ok x?
**okey, mb i’ll try it later. will email u on that. tq**
February 5, 2008 at 7:50 pm
tasneem must be so excited to finally see what’s out there… hehe.. we babies do like sitting in the car… especially when it moves… don’t worry about your weight, aunty.. it will reduce sooner or later.. if you breastfed tasneem exclusively, it will reduce even faster.. like my umi!!
**i know that exclusive bf can shed the xtra weight, tp biasalah tak sabar. kalu bley, nak slim down balik immediately right after gave birth. huhuhu **
February 6, 2008 at 4:48 pm
first outing mmg agak kelam kabut skek… but soon terbiasa
sekarang kalau keluar i bwk diaper bag damia jer purse & hp pon i selit skali dlm beg damia hehe lagipon skang byk stylish diaper bag so leh bergaya jugak lah 
u are lucky cuz can bf tasneem exclusively me in the other hand sempat 3mth jer then kena demam ruam 2minggu tros “kilang susu” i stop wat production… tried everything even herbal tea tuh x jalan jugak at last terpaksa guna formula :/ kena bwk flask & everything ler bila outing just imagine lah betapa gabaknye beg damia 
and just like babynadhrah comment dun worry bout ur weight lama2 nnti reduce la tuh 
oh and happy one month dear!
** thanx for the wish. rasa cam kejap je Tasneem dah cecah sebulan hehe. yelah, i think i nak kene start looking for a stylish diaper bag. hhehheehh (another reason to shop, yeay!!)**
February 11, 2008 at 3:41 pm
trust me, you won’t feel like shopping for handbag anymore after this, but to crave for diapers bag instead!
** ya lah, i already started browsing online for diaper bags..lambat laun mesti ku beli jua. huhu**