Update: Ummi

Dear  mommies & fellow readers,

I wanted to say a BIG thank you for the ‘get-well’ wishes and concerns regarding my health.  I decided to reply your questions and concerns about the bleeding in a blog-post rather than personally answer the comment one by one sebab basically the questions are about the same kan?

Happy to inform that I’m recovering from the bleeding. Alhamdulillah. However, the real reason behind the occurance of the bleeding in still un-confirm. 1st time intercourse post-delivery might be the act of the bleeding but my concern is that when I asked experienced mommies, they claimed that they didnt bleed as I did. Also, regarding to my gynae, during the suturing procedure, she noticed that my vaginal wall was kind of rapuh because it keeps fallen off when she inserted the needle. That worries me.

Although now the spotting has stopped and my follow-up appointment will be next week, I’m thinking of having for 2nd opinion from other gynae. You know, just to make sure that I am fine that I can have babies in the future. Some asked about wether it was caused by the C-sect procedure. My answer is I dont know. Now my concern is that, remember that I was inserted with 3 doses of induce drug/hormone to dilate the cervical opening but I didnt hence I had to go under the knife. It could be one the effects. But still, its just my wild paranoia thoughts. Mungkin takde kaitan langsung pun.  So mommies, fret not okay. I’ll update about it once I had the answer.

Erm..have you had an experience like me when you had intercourse post-delivery for the 1st time? Manalah tahu kan this is a common thing that I do not aware of. So tak payahla I nak risau lebih2. If you dont mind sharing..

On the other hand, Tasneem already 3 months old and I’m bringing her to her paed in a short while for her immunization jap. Will post her 3months pics in the next post.